What Is Homeschooling And How Do I
know If It's Right For My Family?
by: Anita York
Do you know what these famous people have in common?
- Alexander Graham Bell
- George Patton
- Albert Einstein
- Benjamin Franklin
- Winston Churchill
- Agatha Christie
- George Bernard Shaw
- Will Rogers
If you guessed that they were all homeschoolers,
you'd be correct. This is a very short list of famous
and successful people who were educated at home. If you
would like to expand this list, do a search on the
Internet for ?famous homeschoolers.? There are many
websites that list these people and some provide
detailed biographies. There is even a book called,
aptly, ?Famous Homeschoolers,? by Nancy and Malcolm
Plant. (http://www.fun-books.com/specials.htm)
The point here is to get into the mindset that people
can be educated and become successful adults without
attending public school. And because I can almost ?hear?
what you are thinking, no, it is not necessary to have a
high school diploma to go to college.
So what is homeschooling? In the broadest sense,
homeschooling is educating your children at home. You,
as parent, become teacher. Parents homeschool for more
reasons than you can imagine. Some want to avoid having
their children exposed to violence and peer pressure.
Some homeschool so that they can make sure their
children's education adheres to their religious beliefs.
Some live a different lifestyle?perhaps they travel a
lot?and want their children's schooling to be flexible
enough to fit around that life style. And some, like me,
simply enjoy being with their children. They don't want
the public school to interrupt and weaken the
parent/child bond that they have been working hard to
create for the first five years of their child's life.
Just as there are many reasons to homeschool, there
are many methods of homeschooling. All the way from
?un-schooling? (learning by doing, learning from life,
not using textbook type materials) to ?school at home?
(using textbooks at desks set up in a schoolroom at
home) and everything in between. It's very easy to find
hundreds of homeschool Websites by using a search
engine, but just to get you started, try:
Jon's Homeschool Resource Page
http://www.midnightbeach.com/hs/
When I decided to write this article, I thought hard
about what I could offer that wasn't being displayed on
thousands of Websites on the Internet. I realized that
the only thing I have to offer anyone interested in
homeschooling is?my experience. So everything in the
article below comes from my fifteen years of experience
homeschooling my four youngest children. I hope it is of
some use to you.
Deciding to homeschool your child may be one of the
most important decisions you ever make as a parent, and
it will take a lot of thought and soul searching. To the
newcomer, it may seem impossible, overwhelming and very,
very lonely. But like most huge obstacles, once it's
broken down into smaller pieces, it becomes manageable.
We'll take it one step at a time, in small enough chunks
to get a hold of. So, if you're game, roll up your
sleeves and let's get to work figuring out if
homeschooling is for you and your child.
First things first. Organization is the key. Get a
three-ring binder (homeschooling parent's LOVE
three-ring binders) and put a label on the front. (If
you've made the transition to digital record keeping,
you can just start a folder on the computer. But it's
not as much fun.) Label it something serious, like ? My
Homeschooling Plans? or ?Homeschooling Thoughts.? Put
some paper in the binder, find a really comfortable ink
pen, and sit down somewhere quiet.
Ready? Good. Now, let's get started.
What are your reasons for considering homeschooling?
Even if you haven't actually made the decision to
homeschool, the fact that you are here reading this
article says you are curious. Perhaps you honestly don't
know the answer yet?and that's ok. The remainder of this
article is going to try to help you start to find those
answers.
Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but each
state has it's own set of laws that must be followed.
Compulsory (how I hate that word) education here in
Washington State starts at the age of 8. Even though I
had been homeschooling him from birth, to stay legal
once my son reached 8-years old, I was required to
become ?certified.? That meant I either had to have two
years of college education, or take a ?certification
class.? I met this requirement by taking an independent
correspondence class, during which I was asked to put on
paper my goals, philosophies and reasons for wanting to
homeschool. I'd like to help you do the same right now.
Start a page--either the ?tree? kind or a file on the
computer?and title it ?My Educational Beliefs.? List
what personal beliefs you have about
education?especially the education of your own children.
Get as detailed as you can here--the value is in the
thinking process behind the list. Take your time, I'm in
no hurry.
As an example to get you started, I'm going to share
with you what I wrote on my list nine years ago.
My Educational Beliefs
1. I believe my child's attitude about learning
should be:
One of continual curiosity and seeking of knowledge.
2. I believe my child's learning should lead towards
a lifestyle that is:
Rural, physically active, creative.
3. I believe these basic values should be part of my
child's learning:
- Respect for others
- Loyalty to family and friends
- Honesty
- Generosity
4. I believe children learn best:
Through hands-on learning experience, reading,
workbooks.
5. I believe a teacher should:
- Provide side-by-side assistance and direction.
- Interact with the child.
- Provide the structure within which the child may
explore, experiment, study and achieve.
- Provide a good example of excitement in learning.
6. Other beliefs:
I believe my child should grow up to be self-reliant
and occupationally secure in a field of high interest to
them.
Now, that wasn't too bad, was it? Don't give up on
this until you have at least something written down, but
don't agonize over it either. You can come back to it
later if need be. Next, start a paper or file titled
?Life Goals For My Child.?
I want you to write down what kind of person you
envision your child being as an adult. What are your
hopes and dreams for him/her? What educational gifts do
you hope to be able to help them find that will serve
them their entire lives?
I'll share mine from 9 years ago, just to get you
started.
?Life Goals for My Child?
7. Be literate.
8. Be self-reliant.
9. Compete well in their chosen field of occupation.
10. Appreciate art, music, and literature.
11. Be creative.
12. Be inventive and resourceful.
13. Be healthy, mentally and physically.
14. Co-operate with others.
15. Maintain a strong sense of self-worth.
16. Maintain a life-long curiosity, seeking knowledge
as a way of life.
17. Look to the future with a sense of excitement and
adventure.
For the last exercise, start a third paper titled:
Why We (I) Am Going To Homeschool Our (My) Child? (Yes,
single parents can successfully homeschool their
children.) You may not have all the answers for this one
yet either, but just get something down. All of these
ideas and beliefs can start getting mixed in with other
people's opinions once we start educating ourselves in
depth about homeschooling, and you'll be glad you have
these lists tucked away.
Okay, here's my old list:
Why We Are Going To Homeschool Our Children
Our family consists of myself, my husband, a
21-year-old daughter, a 19-year-old daughter, an
8-year-old son, a 7-year-old daughter, a 4-½ year old
daughter, and an unborn son due in 6 months. My two
oldest daughters (from my first marriage) were in the
public school system for the whole of their educational
years. It is largely a dissatisfaction with the public
schools and all it's attendant problems (academic,
social, and moral) that has caused us to make the
decision to homeschool our youngest children. We
decided, even before our 8-year-old son (the oldest of
the younger set) was born, that somehow we would find an
alternative to the public schools.
We want to homeschool for some additional reasons. We
want added closeness with our children. We want more
independence, greater control over our family's moral
and philosophical values, and better awareness of our
children's interests.
We dislike the thought of any government agency--no
matter how well meaning--directing the raising of our
children.
We intend to homeschool because we do not want our
children's academic, social, and moral education taken
out of our hands.
We believe these areas of a child's education are a
parent's responsibility, right, and pleasure.
I'd like you to spend some time going over these
lists until you feel they accurately reflect your
feelings about homeschooling your children. When I did
these exercises, I had only a vague idea about why I
wanted to homeschool and what kind of education I wanted
to help my children acquire. These simple exercises
helped me to ?solidify? my ideas and provided the basis
for our future homeschooling methods. I hope they help
you to do the same. Keep these lists in a safe place and
add to them as you explore the possibility of
homeschooling your child.
About The Author
Anita York has been homeschooling her four youngest children for the
past 15 years. In addition, she teaches other
homeschoolers at two resource centers, and is a
contracted Senior Editor, Editor, Copyeditor and
Manuscript Screener for three publishers.
Her book "You CAN Homeschool Your Child" is
available from One-At-A-Time Enterprises, the
business she started with her homeschoolers.
Available at:
http://www.L7S.net/Item.php?ID=YC000.
Her home business, EagleMountain Reading,
Writing, and Research Services
http://www.L7s.net/eaglemountain provides a
variety of services geared towards helping beginning
as well as established authors with various aspects
of the writing process.
support@L7S.net
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